L.O.V.E Everyone knows what it is, and most want some! The question asked of most readers is, “When am I going to meet ‘The One’?”
While it would be wildly exciting for a reader to share good
news with all clients, unfortunately this isn’t always the case. Sometimes nothing
shows up in the reading except milestones for the client pertaining to career,
family, friends, etc. This can be exceptionally upsetting for the client who
was hoping to receive good news, so they make appointment after appointment
hoping that the reading will show something different. In some cases, they hop
from one reader to another hoping to hear what they want to hear.
Another question that is often asked is, “Am I on a Twin Flame
journey and when will I meet my Twin Flame?” Also a tough one to answer when
the reading isn’t clear. It may show a significant other coming into the
client’s life. The reader can share the character traits that shine through,
and when it could possibly happen, however, there isn’t a defining answer
whether it’s a Twin Flame or not. At one stage there it was thought that a
particular card denoted a Twin Flame relationship, but I’ve come to realise
that it’s not 100% accurate.
My advice to clients who want a reading around love is to take
the reading with light-heartedness. While the reading may indicate that a
deeply intense relationship is imminent, and the client jumps in head first
without using their own discernment, they could be heading for heartbreak. One
can become too complacent when insights have been provided – after all, the
reading showed that only good was going to become of a relationship. But … hey
… the pending good relationship may be hijacked in the meantime by a player who
has no intentions of making a commitment, or worse. The pending good
relationship that hasn’t shown up yet is then delayed … the client’s path takes
a detour and the intended-one will still come into his or her life as divinely
orchestrated, however, at a later date.
In my own experience, I’ve been told over years and years that
I’m going to meet someone near water. This could be at the beach, a river, a
stream, even a fountain. Every time I’m near water subconsciously the thought
comes up, “Is today the day?” Just by the way, I’ve recently moved close to a
river and I’m keeping my eyes peeled …haha!
There was a time when I was convinced that I had met my Twin
Flame as I had very psychic experiences with the guy – picking up scents and
smells and knowing instantly what he was doing, and feelings, and vivid dreams
– until I couldn’t handle the heartache and I asked the angels to take away the
connection. It stopped immediately. Now I keep my heart open to making a
connection with someone who will enter my life at the right time. I haven’t put
myself in a box and defined how and when. Actually, it’s more fun this way. Over
the past months, I’ve met more men from all walks of life and merely observed
them instead of sizing them up as a potential partner.
I want to share with you a personal experience I had many years
ago involving the then love-of-my-life who visited a reader and took things
literally. It damaged our relationship, broke my heart, but also opened up the
path of spirituality for me.
I had been dating *Larry (not his real name) for a while and I
was totally struck on this man. He was tall, dark, handsome, great shoulders,
terrific tan, surfer … you know the type? My dog also loved him, which was
+1000 points in my eyes. It was a few months into the relationship when Larry
started acting up. He found fault with the way I did things. I simply couldn’t
get anything right. I was a great sulker in those days, so I took to doing what
I did best, and sulked. I clammed up. One evening he asked me to meet him for
coffee and there in a restaurant told me that he had been to see a psychic!
Well, I was all ears…
The old psychic had told Larry that he was going to meet many
women in his lifetime and have many relationships, and that the next woman he
was going to meet would be wearing a green shirt, carrying a briefcase and she’d
have a cat (not sure whether the cat was with her or at home as that part wasn’t
shared – still find that puzzling to be honest). I was waiting with baited
breath – my mind was working overtime. I couldn’t recall carrying a briefcase
at any time, I didn’t have a cat, but I had a green shirt though!
Larry baldly told me that the green shirt lady was coming after “The
Loner”. “The Loner” was me, I’m The Loner. He went on to say that he’d met the
green shirt lady a couple of days ago and our relationship was now tickets. He
said that I shouldn’t feel bad though, because after the green shirt lady, he
was told that he was still going to meet someone else …Like this was supposed
to make me feel better.
Talk about being in a hurry to get through your lifetime to fall
in line with what was forecasted.
Of course I was devastated so I stayed in bed for a couple of
days to lick my wounds, and then made an appointment to see the psychic. I was
pleasantly surprised by this dear old man who was on point with a few things he
shared with me, and after the reading I confessed why I was really there – to see
the person who had ruined my future for me.
“Oh Larry’s an idiot, don’t take any notice of him. I did you a
favour. He’ll have many women in his lifetime and will struggle to commit to
one. You were partners in a previous lifetime in France and you broke his heart
then, and now it’s his turn to break yours.” I don’t know if that was supposed
to appease me, but somehow it must’ve helped because I went home and packed up
all Larry’s belongings, left them next to the outside bin, and then took
pleasure in stomping on his alarm clock.
By the same token, the dear old man invited me to participate in
his weekly group sessions and I toddled along and met a torrent of people who
helped me open my mind and explore the spiritual world. There I met my spirit
guide and was shocked to learn that I had a huge
angel next to me who took up most of the room. My attention was now elsewhere
and I was no longer pining for someone who didn’t appreciate me.
What my point is that when a reader picks up that the client is
about to meet someone new, it’s not necessary to go into great detail about how
and where it will happen, what the person will be wearing, what kind of watch
he has, or if he’ll be wearing glasses … If I give you any details about the
prospective suitor it’s because your angels or guides are channelling this
through to me, and I’m being shown something in particular. Becoming caught up
in the nitty gritty about what a person looks like or wears, may channel the
client’s focus on to someone completely wrong for them, and they could miss out
on an opportunity. Remember that we all have freewill, and if a reader makes a
statement that a client is without a doubt going to meet someone with curly
brown hair, blue eyes and gold-rimmed specs, that dear client is going to zone
in on everyone with those attributes. It’s not ethical and it’s not right to be
manipulated.
While I try my best to give as much information about the
character of someone coming into a client’s life, it’s not always clear cut. On
occasion, I see two or three potential partners coming in and it will be
rightfully so that the client is discerning enough to make their decision about
who they are drawn to and find attractive. Where there is a warning around a
potential suitor, I also share that information. I’ll give you an example
around this. A particular client came to see me and I saw that she was going to
meet up with someone she already knew. However, the message was clear that this
new friend would help himself to her things, and she would find herself looking
for these things over the next few days! I told her that if she could cope with
having a relationship like this, then it would be her decision to go-with-the-flow,
but she was given fair warning. This very courageous client chose to
go-with-the-flow but found after a while it wasn’t working because he became
too brazen with his pickings!
It is wise to be aware of what irritates you about your special someone
when entering into a new relationship. You may feel that once you’re in the
relationship you’ll change their hair, their dress, the way they speak or
behave … Perhaps he likes to wear open toe sandals and socks, but the rest of
his wardrobe is pretty funky. Your thoughts may be that you’ll get rid of those
shoddy shoes and get him to wear the latest trend. Somewhere along the line you
may find that he’s never going to give up those sandals and socks and when you
close your eyes, it’s all you can see. Remember, that little niggly irritation
will become a huge mole on your partner’s nose when things aren’t going as
planned.
~Dianne~
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